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Forget choosing pussy men! I’d rather blame taking the pill for the young and stupid judgement I exhibited in selecting my first two husbands. And I can’t say I chose pussified men either; both were traditional Italian men who (in my opinion of course) failed to fully appreciate my smart mouth and Hungarian iron will. Was it coincidence, maturity or just dumb luck that after age 40 I stopped taking the pill and chose my life mate wisely? I don’t know, but I personally don’t think taking the pill influenced my choice of husband material one way or another.

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I apologize ahead of the fact for being too lazy to look it up, but I recall about 25 years ago a study came out looking at pheromonal attraction between women on the pill and their partners. It concluded that once these women went off the pill, the attraction to their mates, attributed to compatible pheromones, was lacking. Part of the discussion centered around women who went off the pill to get pregnant, and ended up getting divorced shortly after the birth as a result of no longer being attracted to their husbands. It was also explained at that time that the pheromonal attractions, when natural, were between individuals whose immune systems were different, such that their union and reproduction produced hardier offspring, immunologically speaking. This, of course is now lacking, and as a result we have massive autoimmune problems, and other higher level physiologic problems, such as neurological ones. What are the major problems with children today? Allergies and learning disabilities. It is currently fashionable for those supportive of Alternative Health, to attribute these things only to vaccines. This misses the fact that people's physiology is affected by multiple factors, and it behooves us to take as many of them into account as we can.

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How misogynistic of you, Shrew! That Toxic Masculinity! The world needs more, there's obviously a deficiency.

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I’ve been single for 60 years (never married). I dated quite a bit. I look at men now, and think, “What the hell happened????”

The men look soft and feminine…nothing like the guys from my generation. It’s really creepy!

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Yes!!!! And they all have such high voices!!! Glad I’m not young and looking for a mate now, I’m more masculine than the young men of today

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Lmao Debra! I totally understand! I think Alex Jones was RIGHT (proven)…

https://youtu.be/9JRLCBb7qK8?si=N_wjO2bS0WBv8VzU

🤣😂🤣😂😉

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That was a great video I never saw that!😆😂🤣😂😆😂🤣😂😆

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Such an interesting article. I used to consider myself a feminist. I thought the feminist movement was about gaining equal rights for women. I did not realize there was more to it than rights. I believe in women having the choice of what to do in life and being equally as respected as men. However, men do not need to be treated in a way that weakens them in order for women to achieve and be happy. Strong men should not be a threat to strong women.

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Great article. My wife and I recently moved to North Idaho, The Great American Redoubt, to find a safe haven from the madness. It is among the most conservative places in the states. We are both amazed at the burgeoning sexuality out here among men and women. The girls seem to be in a constant flirtatious state, which is actually probably just being a feminine woman, and I have to contain my MILF wife as we walk around among ruddy guys in tight jeans and aggressive postures. It is a breath of fresh air for sure. It probably also explains why there are so many children out here!

No doubt that the feminist, elite reprogramming and other associated social remedies like the pill have purposely dampened normal heterosexuality.

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May 6Liked by Todd Hayen, PhD, RP

So interesting!

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I personally think that the pendulum has swung too far, yet again. I think younger women today have been taught that they don't need a man, that they are themselves super heroes -- coupled with the fact that men themselves have become weak and obliging and many have been taught that they can't have a physical encounter when you are young, you need to be kind and talk it out. All of this is true in limited amounts of doses but it has swung so far that men don't stand up and women become too demanding and overbearing. Today, there is too much emphasis on looks (just look at all the women especially who have a lot of work done to keep looking like 30 while they are 50-60). I think there needs to be a physical attraction and a deeper connection and therefore sex is more satisfying and not just a physical empty act. As for the birth control pill, I do think it has nefarious intent especially what we know today of other things.

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So well said.

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May 6Liked by Todd Hayen, PhD, RP

The pill was not engineered to cause women to prefer pussy men, the pharmaceutical companies are too incompetent. But, my daughter’s doctor told my daughter to start taking the pill because “it is good for you” even though my daughter was not sexually active at the time. It is probably being pushed now because these side effects are known. (My daughter has a different doctor now)

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May 6Liked by Todd Hayen, PhD, RP

I know that Jordan Peterson gets a lot of stick for his views and statements. However, one thing he says resonates with me. I am paraphrasing it but it goes something like that:

If you think strong men are a problem, wait and see what weak men are doing to us.

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