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Patricia lucas's avatar

Dr. Hayen,

As a psychologist in an active private practice, I have also experienced this hatred syndrome of Trump. It is always uncomfortable to hear the extreme declarations of disrespect and harm from otherwise caring people who love their families and communities. I have often been exhausted by witnessing this type of commentary, having to maintain a presence of love and knowing what and where to address their feelings in the context of well being. It is very hard at times. Ironically, this has also shaped me to look at my biases from the standpoint of being in alignment with the people I see, and how this affects my ability to be helpful. I know that when the hate speech is in engagement with someone holding a place of love, some people hear what they say more clearly and it creates a pause. Not always of course, because if I don't validate the negativity, there has been questioning of where I stand on politics. Navigating this territory appears to be part of the job now. It is an intense time and I continue to be supported by the truth I see is becoming more and more available to people, like many things you have written. I appreciate your writing and thank you!

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Todd, it's not just TDS. My mother's good friend, who is a dual citizen and who suffers from TDS, stopped talking to my mother for a few weeks because she said she's voting for Pierre Poilievre! Politics in Canada has never been this deranged. I find Mark Carnage to be as personally odious as Trump but with much more dangerous policies, and yet I wouldn't stop talking to my brother who will vote for him or my sister who is a socialist.

This friend of my mother's has TDS so bad that she's afraid to go to California to visit her kids and grandkids. She's an American and believes she needs to wipe her phone of any anti-Trump content because she literally fears she'll be imprisoned if a border agent looks at her phone. Another of her friends owns a property in the US, wants to sell it, but is afraid to go to the US to put it on the market. The people we're describing are clearly in thrall to the MSM as that is the only explanation for this degree of derangement, hate and fear. I'm not sure they'll ever snap out of it...just like the people who are still wearing masks.

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